Creating shared goals and meaning helps couples build a deeper connection and a sense of purpose together.
Why It Matters
- Strengthens relationship commitment
- Provides direction for your life together
- Enhances feelings of teamwork and unity
- Increases overall relationship satisfaction
How to Practice
- Discuss values: Share what’s most important to each of you.
- Set joint goals: Create short-term and long-term goals together.
- Create rituals: Establish meaningful routines and traditions.
- Support individual dreams: Encourage each other’s personal aspirations.
Areas to Explore
- Life philosophy and values
- Goals for your relationship
- Financial goals and attitudes
- Family and parenting views
- Career and personal growth aspirations
- Spiritual or religious beliefs
Exercise: Vision Board
- Together, create a vision board for your relationship.
- Include images and words representing shared goals and values.
- Display it where you can see it regularly.
- Review and update annually.
Common Pitfalls
- Assuming you know your partner’s goals without discussing
- Prioritizing individual goals over shared ones
- Neglecting to support each other’s personal dreams
- Avoiding discussions about differing values or goals
Remember, creating shared meaning is an ongoing process. Regularly check in and discuss your shared vision for your life together.
